Zety Survey Finds 57% of Employees Would Rather Give Up Their Job Than Their Workplace Romance

By PR Newswire On Jul 16, 2024

The majority (80%) of employees reported having a workplace romance and nearly half have done so with their direct supervisor.

Zety, a career service dedicated to helping people improve their resumes and cover letters, has released the findings of its Workplace Romance Report. The comprehensive survey of over 1,000 U.S. employees delves into the dynamics of romantic relationships in the workplace and highlights the policies and perceptions surrounding office romances. The report reveals that the majority (57%) of employees would rather give up their job than lose their workplace romance.

The State of Workplace Romances
Workplace romances are a common phenomenon, with 80% of employees having experienced a romantic relationship, casual dating, or sexual encounter with someone at work. 44% of employees have had a workplace romance once while over half (56%) have done so twice or more. Although, the dynamics of these relationships vary widely:

Baby boomers lead the way with 90% having had a workplace romance, compared to 81% of Gen X, 76% of millennials and 70% of Gen Z.
41% of employees have engaged in a romantic relationship with their direct supervisor (24% were in a long-term relationship and 9% a one-night stand).
36% of employees have had a workplace romance with a colleague (32% reported a long-term relationship and 23% a one-night stand).
33% of employees have been romantically involved with a direct subordinate (30% reported a long-term relationship and 15% a one-night stand).

These interactions highlight the complexity and widespread presence of workplace romances across all levels of management. Despite their involvement, the majority of workers believe that employers should prohibit these types of relationships among colleagues (91%) as well as romantic relationships between superiors and subordinates (89%).

Technology’s Role in Fostering Romantic Connections
Technology has significantly influenced the landscape of workplace romances. A vast majority (80%) of workers believe that social media and messaging apps have increased the number of these relationships. Specifically, remote work seems to foster more romantic connections:

84% of remote employees report having a workplace romance compared to 75% of on-site workers.
Virtual meetings and online chat platforms have become the top ways (52%) employees meet their romantic partners at work.

The Downside of Office Romances
Despite their prevalence, workplace romances come with many challenges and heartache. An overwhelming 88% of workers have observed conflicts or problems stemming from these relationships. The top negative effects survey respondents reported include:

Retaliation (34%)
Worsened work-life balance (33%)
A decreased sense of belonging in the workplace (30%)

The repercussions can be even more severe, with 29% of employees quitting their job and 22% being fired because of their romantic involvement at work. Zety’s study also revealed that:

92% say their workplace romance was against company policy.
33% admit to cheating on their partner with a colleague.

Navigating Workplace Romance Policies
Despite the risks, workplace romances remain a prominent aspect of work life, with 92% of employees willing to start a workplace romance in the future.

While 88% of employees feel that workplace romances should be reported to HR, only 40% of those who have engaged in such relationships have actually disclosed them, revealing a significant gap between policy and practice. This shows the need for well-defined company policies and open communication channels, as nearly 1 in 10 employees also report a lack of clear guidelines on workplace relationships in their organization.

Positive Outcomes from Workplace Romances
In contrast to the challenges posed by office relationships, these romances can also yield significant benefits. 1 in 4 employees have actually found love and met their spouse at work. Moreover, these relationships extend beyond personal connections and have resulted in:

Increased job satisfaction (38%)
Higher productivity (35%)
Better work-life balance (35%)

However, the perks of such relationships can sometimes blur ethical lines, as 29% of employees reported receiving favoritism and 27% received a raise or promotion due to their workplace romance.

“Workplace romances are inevitable in the modern work environment, and unexpectedly, the rise of remote work and digital communication tools have helped spark new relationships,” says Dominika Kowalska, CPRW and career expert at Zety. “It’s essential for companies to establish clear policies and guidelines to manage these relationships effectively and mitigate any potential negative impacts on the workplace.”

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